Saturday, March 22, 2014

What do you do?

I get asked this question all the time.
"What do you do?"

I reply "I am a Nanny."

Typical Responses are as followed
1. "Oh."  
2. "Wish I had your job"
3. "That's so great!"

The first responses normally come from people who expect because I am 24 I should be (in their eyes) doing something more with my life.  Putting my degree to work.
The second responses come from people who have absolutely no idea what I do and think I just get to hang out and watch tv all day.  Which couldn't be further from the truth.
The third responses are from moms.  Moms who know exactly what I mean and know exactly what it is that I do. 

I am a Nanny.
I step into Mom's shoes everyday when she leaves for work.  
She hands the baton to me.

I am not saying that I, in anyway shape or form replace mom.  I make sure that the families I work for want me to teach their children, not parent them.  
If a family does want me to parent then I won't work for them because it's not my job to parent, it's theirs.
I believe that Mom's should be in constant contact with their nannies all day long.  That way, even though mom isn't there physically, she knows whats going on and can take back that baton right when she gets home!

I love the families I work for!  I am so blessed to work with mothers who are so in love with their children!

I started nannying in college.  I did it just so I could make a little extra money, but it slowly turned into something much more than that.

In college, I took a human development class which quickly turned into my minor because I loved it so much.  I was fascinated by how we, as humans, learn and develop.  But what really reeled me in and made me love human development so much, to make it my minor, was children.  Children grow and learn so fast.  I mean the majority of a person's language is learned before the age of 5.  If you were to expose a child to multiple languages really early they would learn all of them.  I repeat, All Of Them.  I've seen it.  It's crazy!!  They just pick it up.  Do you know how long it take an average adult to learn a second language?  Average... about 2 years and that's if they are submersed it in and taking vigorous coursework in that language.  Granted there are some who learn quicker than 2 years and others who try and try and try to learn another language and just can't.

So, because of my fascination, I started focusing on Child Development and felt like I dove into this whole new world.  It dramatically changed the way I look at children.  For sure it changed how I looked at my job.  The more classes I took and the more I learned, the more I started changing the games I would play with the kids I worked with.  I learned how to better teach them in whatever stage of development they were in.  I could easily see if one of any of them were behind developmentally and I was/am able to counteract that.  Add that knowledge with my social work knowledge I was/am also able to work with behavioral challenges/delays as well.  I keep charts on all the kids in the families I work for.  Different things we are working on and have accomplished.  I love showing parents my notes, because they can see tangibly all that their child is learning and accomplishing!  They see it everyday of course, but it all becomes so much more real when it's on paper.  I love seeing the pride in their eyes and in their children.  It's one of the best parts of my job.

I go to work everyday with plan.  Almost like a teacher.  I plan different games/activities we're gonna do to work towards whatever goal/milestone/thing they are working on learning.  The most legit part of all of it, is that I get cater it to each child.

Every child that I work with is incredibly unique and beautiful in their own way!
Amelia* is the future business woman. Very stubborn, organized, and dramatic.  She know what she wants and goes after it.  She'll probably own/run her own restaurant one day because the girl loves to cook!
Baby Lily* isn't really doing much just yet since she's only a few weeks old but I can't wait to see who she becomes.  She is already so different from her sister Amelia* it is crazy.
Reece* is the artist or inventor.  He loves to create, experiment, and push the limits on everything.  I get overwhelmed by how creative he is and all the ideas in his head.
Avery* is the engineer.  She loves just sitting down and figuring out how things work.  It's so awesome to just watch her take apart a toy and then put it back together.

So yes... I am Nanny.   I do use my degree and all that I learned in college every day.  I work hard.  There are good and bad days.  But I love my job and I am proud of what I do.  

Saturday, March 15, 2014

25 before 25

I have had multiple friends that are doing this and did do it in the past so I'm going to give it a shot.  

I'm 24.  I've been 24 for about two weeks.

I know that being 24 is very young.  I understand that.  Shoot there are moments I still feel like a baby.  However if you think about it... I'm most likely already lived over a quarter of my life.  My best friend reminded me of that promptly on my birthday.

So I'm doing this challenge thing. Whatever you want to call it.  Mainly because i'm already planning on doing lots of habitual changes so I might as well document it right?  Isn't that what I want this whole blog to be about?  Lovely!  

Other friends who are doing/have done this had different books they wanted to read or they wanted to run a marathon.  To the first... setting a goal to read a book for me is a joke.  I read a least, minimum, one a week.  So that's out.  And to the second... Please there is nothing on this planet that would make me want to run a marathon.  Even if I did in some form or fashion become a runner, I will never pay for a race that will make me wish I didn't have legs.  Because that's what it will do.  Promise.  Although running will/should probably be on the list.  

I just want to make sure that this list is made up of 25 things that I not only want to do/achieve, but I want to challenge myself!  I wanted to make them specific too!  That way I can't vaguely say I did them or not, but I can cross them off as soon as I do accomplish them!

It took me f.o.r.e.v.e.r. to make this list!  Well here they are.  The list of 25 things I want to accomplish before I am 25.  

1. Read through the entire Bible in one year.
I'll be reading through a plan every day but I hope to also read it like a book.  I read all the time, this is just a way for me to make sure that I am reading more of the bible than any other book.
2. Complete the couch to 5k.  
I'm getting this out of the way now.  I've said over and over i'm going to do it... not putting it off any longer.
3. Create and stick with budget that allows me to pay off 1/4 of my student loans. 

This is totally possible.  Even if it seems huge.  If I increase my income, which I'm planning to do, then I'll be able to pay off 1/3 of them! 

4. Learn how to sew proficiently. 
I'm taking my first class next Tuesday, 3/18, and for sure will be documenting!  So excited!
5. Start a herb garden and hopefully keep it alive. 
I do not have the best track record with plants... but I have never really educated myself and really put forth effort.  I believe I can do it! 
6. Learn Calligraphy. 
This just sounds pretty and I want to know how to do it! 
7. Take a pottery class. 
Basically me in a class. 
8.Be consistent with sending out birthday cards and thank you notes.
I want to love the people in my life well!  This is one way I can do that and I think it is so thoughtful!  Who doesn't love getting mail (that is not a bill).  Already got loads of stamps!
9.Lose 30 more lbs.  
I've lost almost 50 pounds in the past 6 months.  Now to lose the rest.  
10. Visit/call my family more often. 
These people are the best people in my life.  I cherish them.  Visits will happen more often!

11. Do an unassisted pull-up.  

Pull-ups suck.  So naturally I want to conquer them so they cannot hold anything over me.

12. Take more photos.  
I'll need to get an actually camera.  One of the big ones maybe.  I'd love to just lose myself in an afternoon around Austin or in the greenbelt and take pictures!  Sounds so relaxing!  Could help with #15
13. Face one of my biggest fears -- Ride a horse. 

This is my big "challenge."  Horses are terrifying.  You might think they are majestic... and so do I. from. a. far.

14. Be more daring and adventurous with clothes. 
Boho chic.  I have a ton of clothes that fit this.  I want to wear them!  Especially now that I can since I've lost weight!
15. Take a true Sabbath once a week.
Rest and Recharge.  This means being alone for me.  No
16. Go Major League Baseball game.
Rangers vs. Yankees would be fabulous but I'll take what I can get :)
17. Develop normal sleeping patterns.  
no comment needed.
18. Take a road trip cross country.
With a couple gal pals or by myself, not sure yet, but this sounds beautiful!
19. Crochet a blanket big enough for a queen bed.
I've been working on one for 4ever!  I need to finally finish it!
20. Go on a Fishing Retreat for a weekend.
This sounds so relaxing... I'll have to get my dad to take a weekend.  Or find people who like to Fish.  Do you like to fish?  Lets go fishing!
21. Watch a Broadway show.
I love to sing.  I love plays.  Why have I not been to a broadway show?
22. Learn how to knit.
I know how to crochet... now to know how to knit!
23. Make my own candles.
My dad and I did this as Christmas gifts one year and I just loved it!  So I want to make my own! 
24. Get a Tattoo
My sister and I want to get matching tattoos.  We are still working out what because we are so dramatically different but I love this idea and cannot wait!  Even if we don't decide on the matching one, I have tattoo ideas of my own!

25. Finalize the transition to eating Whole Food Plant Based.

I've been making this transition slowly but surely.  Now to finish the job!

I'm excited to get started and cross things off this list!  You can check my progress here! And you can bet that i'll be writing about all these adventures!  Ahh... nothing I love better than crossing things off a list!

Let's get started!


Friday, March 14, 2014

Why the Lion's Daughter...

So I'd like to say I thought long and hard about what I was going to name this blog considering I would like to continue it for long while, but it really just came to me.  Or I guess I could say it's always been there.

I love lions.  I mean ever since I was little I was obsessed with them.  You'd think it was because of The Lion King... oh that was an experience.  First time I ever saw that movie I was 5 and we had to leave the theater because I became utterly hysterical when Mufasa died.  Screaming "NOOOOO" and sobbing so uncontrollably that even my mother (who is by far the most incredible, patient, and loving person on this planet) could not calm me down. I'm sure my sister was so pissed at me but I like that I had some dramatic flair even at such young an age.  But I digress.  

Even before The Lion King became a mini phenomena my father would always say something to my sister and I... 
"The daughter of a Lion is also a Lion."
When I was little I would dream about how my family and I were really all lions and we lived in the jungle.  I'm pretty sure when I was 8 I had a actual dream that I was best friends with Simba and my dad was best friends with Mufasa.  This is of course before Mufasa died.  

It wasn't until I got older that I started to fully comprehend what my dad was saying. 

I became a disciple of Jesus when I was 14 years old but didn't really start to follow him or know how to follow him until college.  I remember when I truly started to pursue Jesus around my junior year of college and my nose was always buried in the Bible.  I felt like I was seeing lions everywhere... I even did a word study.  I know I know... nerd.  The word lion is in the bible 79 times (esv) if you were interested.  Anyway, I kept seeing how lions were used as imagery depicting God.  Who he was.  What he did.  And I was mesmerized.  

All throughout this I kept thinking of the quote my dad always said and I slowly but surely began to understand what he meant.  The more I started to discover my identity as a child of God, the more I understood that my earthly father was not the Lion... my heavenly father was.  
The best part of the gospel is that because of Jesus and all he did on the cross when God looks at me He sees Jesus.  I am covered.  I am sheltered.  I am cared for.  I am God's beloved child.  There is nothing and no one that can take that away from me.  Romans 8:37-39 reassures of that fact every single day.  I will always and forever be The Lion's Daughter.